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Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Thanks, Commander Hadfield. Welcome Home.

For the non space junkies who don't know this, Chris Hadfield just finished his mission as the commander of Expedition 35 on the International Space Station.  If you needed more reasons to love a guitar-playing Canadian astronaut, you can find plenty.

He has opened up the space station to a new generation of space lovers.  The girls and I have been watching the Canadian Space Agency videos in which Commander Hadfield explains how to brush your teeth (yes, even astronauts have to brush their teeth, kids), clip your nails, and, of course, use the toilet in space, along with many of the routine tasks and experiments they completed while on the space station.  We've also been following him on twitter (@Cmdr_Hadfield) to see all of the stunning images of Earth he posted every day.  We truly live on a gorgeous hunk of rock.

Then, there's the total geek fandom factor.  I mean, did I mention he has a sense of humor?  And some pretty famous fans popping in to chat?






If you missed out on any of the fun, you can still scroll back through his photos on twitter and watch the videos.  It's never too late to catch The Space Bug, right?

As a goodbye salute to the ISS and his time in orbit there, Commander Hadfield created this music video.  I'm not gonna lie, it kind of makes me tear up a little.


A big thank you to a fantastic commander.
You have informed and inspired.
Mission accomplished.
Welcome home, Commander Hadfield.
Welcome home.

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Our New Girl

Remember when Lightning said he wanted a new friend?  We listened.
Meet Layla.

We've had our eye on this girl for a couple of months.  At first, we were waiting for her to finish nursing her pups and get spayed before we could adopt her.  Then, we found out she had heartworms.  At the time, we had too much going on.  I just couldn't imagine bringing her in to our hectic house or having the time or energy to devote to her care.  Eventually, things settled.  And really, who could say no to this face?


She's about two years old, and she's had a long, tough road.  She was an excellent mother to her pups, and despite being terrified, she is certainly a brave little thing.  It's taken her a little longer to feel completely safe around Ken, but we've been patient.  We have no idea what she might have endured out on her own.  The vet said she seems healthy and was optimistic regarding her heartworm treatment.

She loves to cross her paws, like a little lady.  Harper says it's to make a heart.  I think she's right.


 So, she's our little lady.  She's super chill and submissive (quite the opposite of our other dude) and now that she's warmed up to us, she is wagging her tail and feeling safe enough to play.  Good thing, because our boy was dying for a furry friend to play with.

Lady and the Tramp,
as I refer to them

Our guy is smitten.  He can't stop giving her kisses.

Actually, we're all in love.

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Advice Fail

This post is in its original, ugly, first draft state.  
Given the subject matter, it felt appropriate to leave it messy and honest.  


Some days, things go really well.
I feel on top of things.
The house is clean.
The people & animals who live here are clean, fed, and happy.
The workflow . . . flows.

Other days, everything grinds to a halt.
We're all dirty and angry and nothing gets done.
In fact, the to-do list grows into an insurmountable pile of dusty anxiety.
I cry.  Sometimes a little.  Sometimes a lot.

I feel like a failure.

You see, I started this blog to give an honest portrayal of what our lives looked like as homeschoolers.  In the beginning, I wanted to show our path as new homeschoolers.  Now, I continue with the site to show how we've grown, how we've changed, and how we still fumble along the way.

Some days, during those good days, I have the energy to organize thoughtful posts.
I play cheerleader and encourage you all to put one foot in front of the other.
Because that's what I do.
Mostly.

But it never fails that soon after I publish a really meaty post, I fall on my face.
Splat.
I realize that we haven't been doing any of the things I said we do, and I haven't been doing any of the things I encourage all of you to do.
I realize that some days
I am a big, fat fraud.

But you know what?
That's ok.

It's ok to have a bad day or week or month.

It's ok to say, "Crap, I can't get anything done, let's take a break and regroup."

It's ok to realize it's spring and the house is a mess and the kids are playing in the mud and there's no way you're going to get any work done because it's finally warm and you all want to spend the day outside.

It's ok.


That realization has been part of my own journey.
The realization that plans will change and no matter what amazing new learning path you've found or what really useful/awesome/efficiency-building habit you're working on at the moment, there will be days filled with mud and sunshine and laughter.
Enjoy them.
Dry your tears, pocket your frustrations, and forget that there are only 5-6 weeks left in your planned school year.
Take a breath, enjoy the day/week, and forget about your "failures" for a moment.
Then, once you've had a chance to recharge, come back and resume your projects or clean your house or tackle the next baby step.

I am not a fraud or a failure.
I am a beautiful but flawed human.
I rock.

Guess what?  You rock, too.

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Relaxing with Wolves

Sometimes
you just need a break.


We recently took a little vacation to the Alabama coast.
Instead of being on the beach this year,
we picked a house a couple of blocks from the beach.
We had woods, wild bunnies, and privacy.


The fenced in pool and dog-friendly beach meant
we could take our favorite furry dude with us.
I think he enjoyed himself, too.


It was a bit chilly for mid-April, but
I'm actually quite fond of beaches off-season.
You get the place all to yourself that way.


Well, we did have to share the beach with the mole crabs . . .


. . . and this big guy,
who wasn't the least bit afraid of us.


We didn't make this a formal-type of learning vacation,
but we did swing by The Little Zoo That Could.
I'm so glad we did, because did I mention
my youngest's current project is wolves?


She still has this face:

It was great to see our girls snuggle, play, and relax
together.


Stairs are not a plus when you have sleepwalkers,
so we had to do some furniture rearranging each night.


But the place was gorgeous and so relaxing.
I took notes for when we build our someday house.
Must-have item #1 is a huge table.


It was way bigger than we needed for our family of four,
but we spent lots of cold, rainy mornings and afternoons
gathered there to play Yahtzee and Uno.


Do you see those green chairs on the screened porch?
We (mom & dad) spent every evening out there.
We even got to watch a family of snakes play in the pool on our last night.
Eek!
Still, we had a wonderful time, and it reinforced the idea that
sometimes, in the middle of things being crazy busy,
 you have to change up the scenery a bit and
just
breathe.

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Project-Based Homeschooling Q&A: Documenting & Forward Motion

Last week, in the second part of this getting started with project-based homeschooling series, I talked about our project space and supplies.  Remember, this is not a how-to series.  I'm writing these posts not to show you the right way to do things, but to show you our way and hopefully inspire you to find your own way.

Today, I'm talking about forward motion and documentation.  In other words, how we keep projects moving along in the face of boredom/frustration/fear and how we know we're actually doing stuff.  When we hear the word "project," we're sort of programmed from our own childhoods and educations to think about pretty final products or pin-worthy items.  Sometimes we have those.  More often than not, however, we have stuff that looks a lot like our craft room exploded.  Or just kids playing with Legos.


But if you pay close attention and build the habit of writing down all of those little things they're doing that don't look like the typical definition of learning activities, you'll start to see patterns or deeper skills and connections forming.  You'll see the face of authentic learning.  Subjects they research begin to show up in their play, drawings, stories, and conversations.  You'll see them learning at a much deeper level than if they had just read a few pages in a textbook and answered some questions or wrote an awkward, forced essay.  It's real. It's powerful.  And it sticks.

But . . . it doesn't look like "education" to the casual observer.  This is why I have to pay close attention, otherwise it will slip by and I'll panic that we aren't doing enough or the right things.  This is also why I have to document.  I have to write down all those bits of play and conversation and take photos of those drawings, because it's too easy for me to miss the connections.

I'll admit, this is an area where I'm weak.  Years of teacher training forced my brain into overplanning mode, and I just now feeling capable of letting go of that need to plan everything ahead of time and instead recording activities as/after we do them.  It's been such a freeing experience, and, in many ways, I find that we do more now than before.  Still, I forget to write things down.  I kick myself at the end of a day for not taking a picture of them doing something that was clearly project related but that I just didn't recognize at the time.  It's a process.  I'm getting there.  And I let go of the idea of perfection a looooong time ago, so that helps.

Following are Deb's questions about documenting and keeping things moving along.  As always, we can continue the discussion in the comments, so feel free to ask your own questions.


1.  How Do You Document Everything?

I already mentioned above that I don't, but I should.  Ok, for the record, I hate the word "should."  It's pre-loaded with guilt.  I don't like using it.  But in this case, I know I should document more.  The best I can do is keep a notebook & camera out where I can see them, as a reminder, and build the habit of writing notes and taking photos.  Like everything else we've discussed in this series, it's a work in progress for me.

There are lots of ways to organize your project journal.  Lori has a couple of great posts on this (project journal - parent's & inside my project journal), and you can visit the forum on her site to see how other people set up their journals.  Again, there's no one right way to do this.  You have to find something that works for you, something you'll stick with, organized in a way that makes sense to you.

I haven't found a great system for myself yet.  I could have just set up mine like Lori's.  But no, I didn't.  I pulled out a notebook, labeled it "projects," and ran with it. (*ahem* aries/choleric/firstborn . . . I RUN.  A lot.)  I have a page for each child where I make notes of random interests as they appear.  I have pages for each child's projects, where I jot down what they're doing related to that.  As a new project emerges, I skip a few pages and start a new section.  I also have pages where I journal more freely.  It's all kind of a mess right now.  Sticky note bookmarks are my friend.

I know some of you are probably thinking, "What kind of notebook? What about a binder? Should I use pen or pencil? How many sticky note dividers should I make?"  These are all questions you have to ask yourself.  And remember, nothing is static.  You can change your mind.  And you will.  No matter what you do right now with your journal, you will decide at some point that you want to do something differently.  That's ok.  Just like we talked about not waiting for the perfect project space or supplies, don't wait for the perfect journal set-up to get started.  Just write something down somewhere.

I do also keep a more traditional-type weekly lesson planner.  I note some of the project work in that as they do it, but it's redundant and overkill and I'm trying to break that habit.  It's my security blanket.  If you need your own security blanket until you feel more confident, keep it.


2.  What do you do when the thing that interests them also frustrates them?

I hope someone can answer this one for us.  I really haven't had a lot of experience with this yet, because my oldest is sneaky about only showing interest in things that come relatively easy to her.  I have to guess if she isn't doing something because it's hard or because she really doesn't like it.  The answer isn't always clear with her.

She did run into a block with her last story when she got stuck and had to make some difficult plot decisions.  I helped by working along side her for moral support, showing her how I work around plot troubles, offering to brainstorm with her, and leaving our borrowed copy of Spilling Ink in convenient places so she could get help from other writers.  We held that project time, but I didn't force her to work on her story for all of it.  I would ask if she wanted to try to write one page, one paragraph, or even just one sentence.  That's how I work on tough days.  One foot in front of the other, one page at a time writes a book.  On frustrating days, I don't want to write a chapter, so I won't force her to.  But how about a sentence?  A lesson in baby steps can be incredibly valuable in the long run.

I'm sure there are other ways to work around this, so hopefully others can chime in with their own experiences.


3.  How much instruction or encouragement is too much?  

I think this is something you just have to get a feel for.  Trust your gut.  Do you feel like you're doing most of the work?  Probably too much.  Do you feel like you're constantly pushing instead of being pulled? Probably too much.  In the beginning, however, I feel like there is naturally more parental involvement during the transition to more project work than what is probably the ideal.  You and the kids will get more comfortable with the process as time goes on, and you won't have to poke and prod as much forever.

The big shift, with regard to instruction, will be from giving a lesson first with them following your lead to letting them take the lead and you asking questions as they go along.  You're giving less instruction, and instead guiding them to discover their options and make choices along the way.  How can we learn about this subject?  What supplies will you need?  Do you think we could find a video to show us how to do this?  Let them do the leg work!

Encouragement is good.  We all need encouragement.  I encourage my kids by asking questions about their projects, by asking if they want to take photos of things, or if they'd like to display their projects or share them with family members.  There's also a natural form of encouragement that comes along once they realize the pride of doing all of the work themselves and feeling that sense of accomplishment.

We can also talk about encouraging children to do more with their projects, to dig deeper.  There is an entire section in Lori's book on this subject.  I struggle with this, because it isn't a clear line of when I should let them move on to something else and when I need to give a few more nudges in the right direction.  Gently, I always try to push my oldest just a wee bit further than she is inclined to go with a project.  By "push" I mean leaving books out where she can see them, discussing field trip options, asking more questions, or leaving an interesting article open in my browser.

This is where everything ties together.  Rearranging your project space or adding new supplies encourages more project work.  Displaying their work encourages them.  Asking if they want to document their own projects by taking photos or starting a blog is also encouragement.

And yes, sometimes when I ask, "Would you like to work on your project," the answer is a slightly rude, "No."  I try not to let that bother me, and instead ask if there's something else she would like to work on.  If the answer is once again a snotty, "No," I try a different tactic.  Or we try again the next day.  I try my best to focus on the long term goals and give myself lots of encouragement.  :)


Thanks for reading along with this series, and thanks to Deb for all the great questions.  Here are the links to the first two posts: 

Part 1 - Project-Based Homeschooling Q&A: Getting Started
Part 3 - Project-Based Homeschooling Q&A: Documenting & Forward Motion

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